Self pity?

Enough of self-pitying 

It consumes you and gives you no way out but digging yourself deeper into sadness.

I see so many people telling themselves after a break up that they'll never love again, it's hard to do that, I don't feel the same anymore, I won't ever find another, I am not fine, I will never heal, things won't be the same.

Yea sure things will not be the same, you may not be fine now, you may not be healed now. But seriusly stop the self-pity

Cause self-pitying is pride. 

Telling the world that hey everything is about me. I can only receive love, and my love is so precious that once I gave it to this girl or that guy none of that love is left in me. 

Really? Your love is so special? You sure?

What makes you think that you're so untouchable? 

It's so easy to be in self-pity and be stuck there and sucked into that cycle. I wouldn't expect anyone to heal right away from hurts. You need friends, community, God to heal you. Trust me I've been there I've done that and self-pitying is not the way to go.

But fine if you want to stay there and believe that you'll never get out of that feeling. Feelings lie. Fine if you want to create yourself into someone you wouldn't want to be just because of a breakup. Seriously...stop being so prideful.

Because there are a million and one people out there who needs your love, a milion and one animals out there who needs your care. Life ain't about you and finding a girlfriend or a boyfriend. Yes it hurts (trust me I know).

But honestly there's so much more.

And God has so much more for you.